Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Fall and Grandparents!!

Fall is here and winter is on the way! There is a bite in the air and the weather is fabulous!
We just finished a great time with Mom and Dad. They were here for ten days and we enjoyed every minute of it. They sat in on Bible studies, preached, went to Albania, and most of all, spent time with the kids.
Below is a second posting, which due to technical ignorance, couldn't be put together as one! So, scroll down and check out the latest pics and news!
The grandkids with Nana and GeeDaddy.
Mom and Dad joined Jackie in making Pindjur, a Macedonian delicacy. It is kind of like a spicy relish. They made it with Vesa, a good friend of ours who hosts our Monday night Bible study. They used Vesa's family recipe and it turned out great.

Jackie samples the finished product!

Fall in Macedonia is fantastic. The five of us really enjoy hiking and this visit to Galicnik, in western Macedonia was a treat.

Check out the Kids!!


The last two weeks have been full but good. My parents, Vance and Cherry, came to visit for 10 days and we had a great time. The kids really enjoyed being with their grandparents- walking to school with them, having special stories, and enjoying a weekend in the mountains.


We had a great time hiking in the historic region of Galicnik, a wonderfully picturesque mountain village. We wore ourselves out with some long and steep hikes, but thoroughly enjoyed the turning leaves and the crisp air. Yes, we hiked to the top of this mountain!

Rebekah is doing well in school. 4th grade is a little harder than expected, with lots of homework, but she is showing some good initiative in studying. She enjoyed some needlepointing with Nana while the grandparents were here, and says she wants to be a botanist!
Josh is the president of his 1st grade class and is a very active kid. I think we counted 6 falls that he took on one hike this weekend! Not that he is clumsy, he just goes all out! Last week he literally split his bike in half when he hit a curb at full-speed. Josh was fine, but the bike is trashed! Rollerblading is his new passion.


Daniel must be doing better in Macedonian, because his pre-school teacher complained that he was talking too much to his friends yesterday! He seems to be enjoying school, although computer games are his first love!
Angela is adapting well to our family, but not so well to school! Apparently, her village school was not up to speed and she is struggling to meet the 7th grade standard here in the city. Jackie and I are also struggling to know how to help her learn and what kind of schedule we need to set. This is a big issue for us right now and we are more than a little confused and frustrated! Please make this a matter of prayer for us!



Friday, October 13, 2006

Thoughts on 40 Days of Prayer and Fasting!!!

Well, the forty days are over, actually ending the fast on Saturday morning! As a team we are gathering in Ohrid this evening to officially break our fast with the Lord's Supper and a time of worship together.
Thank you for praying with us during this time of fasting. It has truly been a learning experience for us and we needed your support!

I want to share with you a few things that I have learned during these days.

1) God is truly more interested in who I am than in what I can do for Him. While my focus going into this fast was on praying for others to be saved, I think God's focus was on rooting some sin out of my life. While a fast is partly "denying the flesh" there were times I was so "in the flesh" that I nearly made myself sick! Times of irritability, grouchiness, plain old selfishness. A lot of things like that bubbled to the surface during this time of fasting. I think God did that on purpose! To make me take a hard look at myself and see my sin for what it is, an offence to His holiness.

2) True Thankfulness!! I have always prayed a prayer of thanksgiving before eating, but now I realize how mechanical those prayers often are and how truly thankless I was. I promise that from now on I will truly be thankful for my daily bread and realize what a wonderful gift it is from God, a sign of His daily grace and my need for daily dependence on Him.

3) Discipline. For the last 10 years I have battled my weight, usually a losing battle. I have always had a sweet tooth and often said, "I can't not eat it if it's in front of me!" Well, this fast has taught me that I can hold back, that God does give me the strength. I believe that God has taught me discipline, not for a season, but for a life-style. This includes eating and spiritual disciplines as well. For example, memorizing scripture. I have done that well for the last 40 days. Why shouldn't I keep that up in my normal day-to-day living?

There are also some concrete answers to prayer that our team have experienced in the last 40 days.

1) On Day 6, we had a good visit with Dule, Suzi, Elena and Hristijan. Elena later said that her dad, Dule, had never been a part of such a conversation that was full of Biblical information.

2) On Day 8, we prayed for Vale. She took a copy of "Purpose Driven Life" and has been reading faithfully. She is still closed to attending a Bible study and often has other plans that coincide with the times of such studies.

3) On Day 10 we prayed for the lost people of Ohrid. Maria, one of those we prayed for got saved a couple of days later! She is now being discipled by Mandy and she and her boyfriend, Alex, are the seeds of a new church in that city!

4) On Day 12 we prayed for the church in Skopje as it began 40 Days of Purpose. The church is now in the third week of the study and it is going well. We started 3 new home groups to enable better discussion and increased involvement of church members. Praise God!!

5) On Day 19 we prayed for Alex, mentioned above as the boyfriend of Maria. He is growing in the Lord and just turned down an opportunity to go work in America in order to stay in Ohrid and help Brian and Mandy start a church!




Alex and Brian in Ohrid.











6) On Day 28 we prayed for a small group Bible study to form in Ohrid. That group began before we even reached this day of the fast!

7) On Day 32 we prayed for the volunteer team from Grapevine, Texas. The three guys who came on this team were excellent. We kept them busy with prayer walking, home visits, Bible studies and ESL classes. It was a great chance (despite constant rain!) for them to see what God is doing in Macedonia and where their church can jump in to be a part of planting new churches here.



John, Bryan and Wade from FBC Grapevine on Lake Ohrid.











8) Today, Day 40, we are praying for he Macedonian people to have their eyes opened to God's Truth. At this point, including the new group in Ohrid, I see the potential for two new churches in the next year and one more a year after that!

God is so good and we thank Him for what He is doing. We also thank Him for you and your prayers for our team during this time of fasting. Please continue to pray for the Macedonian people and that hundreds of churches will be planted across this land!

Thank you!
Kyle

Monday, October 02, 2006

Prayer Update from Jackie

Good morning! We’re having a beautiful, sunny but cool Sunday morning. We may have guests for lunch, but won’t know for another few minutes so I’ll zip y’all a note until I know for sure.

We’re now on day 28 of our fast, which means we have less than two weeks left. We are still experiencing ups and downs. Every day is different. It was interesting to me how (for me) Satan changed his tactics once I had reached half-way. Before, the temptations were because of cravings; I just longed so very much to taste all those delicious things that were popping up everywhere (even in dreams sometimes!!). But then at the half-way mark, my whole attitude changed; I felt like I could actually make it to the end of the fast. I suddenly had more days behind me than I had ahead of me, and that was incredibly encouraging. Sure, food still appealed to me, but I felt empowered to set aside my cravings. So Satan changed his tactics. More recently I have felt tempted to quit fasting because I wasn’t craving anything, so in a sense, I had “conquered” the fast – it was no longer a challenge to not eat, so I must be done. I could almost hear Satan whispering, “You’ve gotten all that you can out of not eating. You’re used to it, so the effect is gone. You may as well eat again. Besides, you can pray while eating. What’s the difference?”

Other days I’ve been almost consumed with thoughts of what to cook when we’re done. I’m not craving the food – and that’s true -- but I’m “planning ahead,” Satan tells me. And I end up spending much too much time thinking about the end rather than spending time feasting on God’s presence.

But God can still break through. Thank you LORD, for not giving up on me! Yesterday I was looking up recipes online (for the end of the fast!) and one recipe I pulled up was from a seven-year-old newsletter from the Association of Christian Chefs! The Holy Spirit used the introduction of that newsletter to convict me of my negligence and misplaced priorities. I spent lots of time this morning recording verses in my notebook so I can memorize them and be armed for when Satan begins whispering again.

Family Update
I said last week I would send you an update of our family. Things are going well for us. We are still adjusting to having Angela live with us, but overall the adjustment has been smooth. I just told Kyle the other day, she’s been with us for just over two months now, but I still feel like we have a guest in our home, rather than another family member. That will come with time, I’m sure.

Angela seems to be enjoying her time with us, though we are much stricter than she is used to. She was especially surprised at our bedtimes. She must be in bed by 9:00 pm on school nights – 8:30 if possible. She thinks that’s too early for a 12 year old, but admits that even with the early bedtime she has trouble getting up at 6:45 in the morning, so she no longer argues! She has also had to adjust to our American food; she eats well, so I know when she doesn’t finish her plate, it means it’s a dish she doesn’t like!

Angela’s a sweet girl who loves to play with Rebekah and Kiki, our neighbor (Jovanka’s daughter). This has actually turned out to be somewhat of a problem: she only wants to play! She is in 7th grade and has twelve subjects: physics, chemistry, math, biology, English, German, Macedonian, music, phys. ed., civics, history and art. As you can see, Macedonian schools work the kids hard! However, apparently, village schools don’t require as much of the kids as her new school here in the capital city – or perhaps villagers see little need for education, since most live off the land. Angela’s grades from the village were okay but she has started the year well behind the other students, especially in math, which also affects physics and chemistry. Right now, Macedonian law requires children to finish eighth grade; if things continue as they are, she will have quite a struggle to do that, and in all likelihood, that’s as far as she’ll go. Please pray for her to want to study – she doesn’t seem to understand the connection between studying now and getting a good job in the future. Right now we have her spending about two hours each day reviewing what she had in class that day. Pray that she understands the value in that!

------------------------------------ News Brief: our friends called and I had 80 minutes to make lunch – so this letter was abandoned and now it’s Monday! --------------------------------

We’ve also had a small problem with lying. We actually expected it to be much worse since Angela came from a broken home, so it’s nice it has only happened a few times. She also sometimes acts like she doesn’t hear or understand us or like she has no memory of a conversation we just had minutes before. (This seems to frustrate not only us, but also Rebekah as she watches it unfold before her!) We’re pretty sure this is a defense mechanism, to avoid responsibility for doing (or not doing) something. We feel like we’re dealing with these issues appropriately, but sometimes our hearts become hardened and we find little love for her in our hearts. Pray for us in that.

Our children have adjusted well to Angela, though Daniel prays almost every night for Angela to be able to return to her family – I’m not sure if that’s for her sake or his: she hugs and kisses him much more than he’d like!!! Joshua is doing fine with Angela; he spends much of his after-school time practicing basketball. Any stress at having an extra person in the house usually only shows up at bedtime – when everyone is tired and a little grouchy anyway!

Rebekah enjoys Angela very much, but their personalities are very different. Rebekah is quiet and loves having friends over . . . but, because she’s introverted, she also enjoys playing alone. Angela, on the other hand, cannot stand to be alone – for anything. If Rebekah gets up to go in another room, Angela always goes looking for her a moment later. Rebekah is struggling with being a good friend and also taking the time she needs to be alone to recharge. One great blessing of this school year is that Rebekah goes to school during the second shift; that is, Angela goes to school at 7:30 am and Rebekah goes to school at 1:00 pm. This is a good year for the different shifts so Rebekah can have some alone-time every morning.

Another challenge for Rebekah is that Angela speaks almost no English so Rebekah is her 24-hour translator – and that’s exhausting work!!! If they watch an American movie, Rebekah has to translate every few sentences. We’ve signed Angela up for private English lessons, and of course, she’s taking it at school – but I’ve already mentioned how she feels about studying, and that includes English. There’s one more thing that Rebekah struggles with: Angela came to us with very little, so Rebekah has had to share everything with her. That was fun at first, but because Angela came with so few clothes, I have had to pull out some of the clothes that I originally bought in America for Rebekah to grow into. I’ve tried not to do that much but sometimes I’ve had to. Rebekah is very generous, but I know she’s disappointed when I pull out something new that was intended for her.

Rebekah tends to hold things inside until she bursts into tears over nothing. We’re trying to spend extra time with her to talk through things before there are problems. Pray that we will be wise and that Rebekah will be strong, generous, kind, loving and honest – whatever is called for at the moment!

Macedonian Friends
Thank you for continuing to pray for Trenda, the lady who was babysitting next door. She called this afternoon and said her apartment has still not sold. I promised to continue to pray for her. Please continue to pray for her apartment to be sold so she can buy a cheaper place and use the money to pay her debts. She also needs to find a job closer to home so she can walk rather than pay bus tickets. Pray especially that she would yearn to know Jesus, and seek the peace that she said she felt when we prayed together.

Vale is the woman at the gift shop that we prayed for on September 11. Some of you may have heard me share about her: she is the one to whom I’ve witnessed for years and she always asks me to explain passages in the Bible to her. Then she did not come to our Bible study because she had an appointment with her bio-energy advisor (this is a new age guru who helps you channel your body’s positive energy so you’ll prosper, etc.). I visited her twice last week, and Kyle gave her a copy of The Purpose Driven Life. She had recently spent the night at a monastery “for good health and good luck” and saw my visit as a sign that luck was on her side! The second visit I was able to speak more boldly than usual. She asked if the other people in our church were filled with joy and peace like she saw in Kyle and me. She highly praised Purpose Driven Life so I invited her to join our discussion group on Thursday nights. She said she really wants to come but couldn’t that week because she already had two invitations anyway and didn’t know what to choose. I told her that she would always have other options because Satan did not want her to come and that if she really wanted to come, she would have to CHOOSE to come, despite other invitations. She agreed and said she’d come this Thursday. PLEASE pray for her to come, and pray that she would have ears to hear the Holy Spirit speak to her.

General
Please continue to pray for the Macedonian people to awaken to God’s holiness, to their own sin, to God’s grace and provision through Jesus’ death, and to the hope offered by Jesus’ resurrection. Only the Holy Spirit can soften their hearts and prepare them to receive the Word; pray that we will walk so closely to him that we hear and obey when he sends us out to sow seed and gather the harvest. Pray that each day we speak more boldly. “His word is in my heart like a fire, a fire shut up in my bones. I am weary of holding it in; indeed, I cannot.” (Jeremiah 20:9)

Please keep praying for our team’s perseverance and faithfulness to our fast – and especially our faithfulness to pursue God. Please also keep praying for us to hear as the Holy Spirit convicts us of sin in our own lives. I am only now understanding that answering the call to follow Christ is answering the call to change. He takes me “Just as I am” and molds me into someone much better – and the bruises only last for a short while! The plans he has for us are so much better than we could ever imagine!

I can’t express to you how much we need your prayers and encouraging notes. Thank you for remembering us and our friends here.

Love, Jackie

Thursday, September 07, 2006

A few pics

Below are a few pictures from Albania and from our recent baptism. On Sept. 3, we baptized 8 people in a river just outside of Skopje! It was a great time of worship, fellowship.
Enjoy!
"Mali Grad" island- Lake Prespa, Albania

Zrnosko, village, Prespa, Albania

Baptism, Treska River, Skopje, Macedonia

Baptism- Treska River, Skopje, Macedonia

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

Many Apologies

Sorry we have been so bad in updating the blog. August was just a crazy month and September isn't promising to be much better! Part of the problem was that our digital camera is broken and I don't want to just give you text!

Anyway, September is here and things are in full-gear. All the kids are in school- Daniel in kindergarten, Josh a 1st grader, Rebekah in 4th grade and Angela in 7th! They are all excited and happy about new books and in some cases new friends, in others seeing old friends.

Things are going well with Angela. She is adapting well to our family as we are adapting to her! Please keep praying for us and this big transition in our lives.

Other prayer issues:
1) "Purpose Driven Life" has been translated and printed in Macedonian. We will be having a promotion of the book in about 2 weeks and will also be trying to get it into book stores. Our church will begin 40 Days of Purpose at the same time. Pray that many small groups would be started with the help of this book and that the church will sharpen her focus to be more effective in ministry.

2) Our team has begun 40 days of prayer and fasting for Macedonia. If you would like to join us the calendar is linked in the margin to the right. We are focusing our prayers on a spiritual awakening among Macedonians, the salvation of specific friends and asking God to change us too!

Thanks for your faithful prayers. Look for some pictures soon, especially of the baptism which took place this last Sunday.
Grace,
Kyle

Albanian English Camp

Way back in July, we asked you to pray for an English camp to be held among the ethnic-Macedonians who live in Albania.
The camp was held from August 7-12 and we had a great team of Californians and believing-Macedonians from Skopje who were the camp teachers. The camp didn't exactly go as planned!
It was a very stressful time (the first time I have ever had to evacuate a volunteer team!), yet God is going to use this in a special way.

What follows is the letter I sent to my family after the camp. It is rather long, but I think you will find it interesting!

First, in my prelim trips this year, I sensed more opposition than in times past. People were polite but distant, nice but not committing to anything. I knew we were going to have resistance to our English camp and to the gospel, but figured it would be from the priest and maybe some of the older people. Last year we averaged 45 kids per day of the camp. Our plan this year was to do English only in the morning and use the afternoons for home visits and have a “coffee discussion” time for young people in the evenings. The area of Albania is called Prespa. It is on the western shore of Lake Prespa and there are 8 Macedonian villages there. The people are 100% ethnic Macedonian, but have been part of Albania since 1913.

We got there on Saturday in time for supper and got settled in the hotels. The main hotel, where the bulk of the team was, and where the camp is held, is on the lake at a deserted spot, between two villages. There are only two hotels in the whole area, the other being in the farthest village. Don, Sandy, Kitty (Californians) and Gef (73 year-old teammate) were in that hotel. I was in the main hotel with 6 Amercian 20-somethings and 6 Macedonina 20 somethings. As expected, the main hotel had water problems! They had installed a pump, which was better than last year, but if the pump ran for too long the tank would overflow as there was no float valve. So, we had to turn the pump on in the morning to shower and again throughout the day as needed. However, when the electricity was off, which was almost every afternoon, there was no pump so no water! Sounds a bit like Africa! Actually, the conditions were just fine if you are ready for them. Bathing in the lake is no problem if it is expected. But, for our American girls, that was a little more than they were ready for.

I was a little surprised that none of the kids from last year’s camp came to see us on Saturday night, but didn’t think much of it. Sunday morning, we headed out to the little island that is about 10 minutes away and had a great time of praise and worship there. There is an old church- 12th century- on the island. It is tucked away in a little half-cave, really more of a big overhang. The floor of that cave is littered with rocks and is really rough. I told Kitty, my teaching teammate (it was her first trip to Prespa) that I see our current task there as moving rocks from the soil. We will do some planting, but mainly we are getting the field ready for sowing.

After worship, we went back to the hotel, had some orientation time and then headed out to the villages to remind kids that they needed to come for registration. While out, we were told that there was a big concert in town which started at the same time as our registration. Having that in mind, we told kids that they could come on Monday morning and still be part of the camp. Sunday evening, we had about 15 kids show up for registration, most in the 10-14 year range and all boys. That was weird, since the camp was supposed to be for 15 and up and last year we probably had more girls than boys.

Monday morning a few more boys showed up and we started the camp with just three groups of kids although we had planned for 7. That day went well and we had some good home visits. On those visits we ran into other kids and invited them to the camp. Most were polite and said they would come if they had time. That same evening, a couple of our guys were at one of the coffee-shop/bars looking for some of their friends from the previous year. They said that they had a very cold reception from the local 16-25 year-old crowd. Cold to the point of being rude. Obviously, something had happened or someone had been talking to the kids about us.

Tuesday morning we had a few more kids and a couple of girls. Camp went well that day and again, we had some good visits. From those visits we were able to piece together that the priests had been talking about us, saying that we were a dangerous sect. Somewhere in Albania some teenagers had apparenlty gotten involved in a suicide-cult and 2 or 3 of them had hung themselves. The priests were quick to put us in that grouping. So, some folks were scared and others were just suspicious. It was odd in that all the parents whom we visited were very happy to have us in their homes. The bad reaction was coming from the young folks!

Wenesday morning, we had another good morning of English camp. However, that afternoon, things started to unravel. I got back from two good home visits at about 4. When I pulled into the parking lot, where my van had been parked earlier, there was a small cardboard sign stuck to the bushes in front of my car. In very poor penmanship, and a mix of cyrillic and latin letters it said, “Protestants, isn’t there enough room for you in America?” I just stuck it in my car and chalked it up to some kids being trying to be funny. A little later, one of the waiters at the hotel asked for a Bible. I gave him one and a few minutes later went over to a table where he and some of his friends- the 18-25 crowd, were sitting, with the Bible in front of them. As I greeted them I noticed a page of the Bible torn out and lying on the ground. I picked it up and very heatedly rebuked them. I made it clear that no kind of Christian would treat the Bible that way. I took it away from them and walked off. My reaction was a little affected, because I wasn’t really surprised that they had done it, but at the same time I wanted them to know that we take that book seriously and that their lack of respect for it is a difference between us and them. The third thing that happened that day was for another waiter to proposition one of the American girls on the team. He offered her $5,000 to marry him and take him to America. It was probably a relatively harmless thing- I used to get offers for my sister, Cara, all the time!- but it made her very uncomfortable.

All these things together made Don and I rethink a few things. We had planned on staying till Saturday morning. The camp would end on Friday with a pizza lunch for the kids, we would stay Friday night and head out for Ohrid on Saturday early. Well, we knew there was going to be a big party in the village on Friday night. Knowing that would mean a lot of drinking and potential visits with drunk 20 somethings, we decided to leave town on Friday afternoon and have some extra time in Ohrid. I made a few phone calls, to get the van there earlier and to get hotel rooms in Ohrid. All was lined up and we felt good about continuing the camp as planned but making a slightly earlier than planned departure.

About 8:30 on Wednesday night, the owner, his wife and all the hotel staff packed up and left. Our group was there alone. We had planned a coffee-discussion time for the young folks, but noone showed up. So, we were singing some praise songs and enjoying fellowship. As I mentioned, the hotel is off to the side, 15 minute walk from the nearest village. The only thing nearby is the police-station. Most of the police men are Albanian and we can’t communicate with them.

At 8:45 a car pulled up, dropped off one guy and left. The guy was about 30 years old and big. He was wearing a tank-top and you could see his bulging muscles. He walked right up to me, looked me in the eye and said, “You are going to have big problems with me.” I asked why and he wouldn’t say, but started threatening to pull all of our documents and run us out of the country. He told us that he was mafia and would cause big problems. I was a little concerned at this, but could smell beer on him and figured he was just drunk. He then asked where the hotel-owner’s son was- Aleksander. I told him that they had all just left. He went and banged on the door and hollered Aleksander’s name a few times and then came back to where Don and I were standing, away from the group. He again told me that I would have big problems with him and then started to say what he wanted to do with the American girls in the group. I was looking for a way to get rid of the guy and kept telling him that there was no problem with us and that he should look for Aleksander elsewhere. He told me to take him to the next village to look for the guy (apparently they had argued over a girl) and I quickly agreed to do so. Don and one Macedonian kid, Marjan, got in the car with us and we headed to the next village.

There, we went into the hotel/restaurant where I know the owner very well. By now I was more than a little nervous. The guy was still very threatening, saying he would “take care of” me. Most of the threats were aimed at me personally. I walked into the restaurant and when I saw the owners eyes I got scared. When he saw who was with me his eyes got big and his face pale. While the guy, Sasi, was sitting down at a table I was able to say to the owner- “I have no idea who this guy is but I’m trying to get rid of him. Help!” Sasi made us sit down and have a drink with him. Much to his entertainment, Marjan and I had cokes while he had a beer. Don was watiting outside. Sasi continued with his verbal threats, bragging about whom he had killed and handicapped in the past and what he would do to me and to the girls in the group. Several times we said we needed to go and he would tell us to sit down. I was praying for a way to get out of there and leave him, but at the same time knowing that he could just walk to the hotel or get a ride with someone else and we would be in worse shape if he was really mad. After about ½ hour he decided we needed to go to another village to look for Aleksander. I agreed, hoping we could get rid of him there.

When we walked out to the car, Don was there waiting. Sasi went up to him and cussed him out in Macedonian, patting him on the shoulder rather roughly. I ducked back inside to ask the owner what to do and to ask him to come with us. He declined saying, “Don’t worry, he’s just drunk.” Well, that was exactly my worry! It wasn’t like the guy was under control.

We headed towards his home village and at a fork in the road he told me to go to another village so we could get some coffee. I declined, saying that he had already bought us a coke at the other place and there was no need for that, plus folks were waiting for us. As I pulled up to the fork in the road, he reached over, turned off the engine and pulled the keys from the ignition! Then he got out of the car and started to walk away! All three of us got out of the car and I was ready to take physical action at that point! However, I realized that this guy was strong! I had tried to hold onto the keys and he just pulled them right from my hand! After a couple of minutes of convincing, he gave the keys back and we continued on our way. We drove into the main village just as a bunch of young people were coming out of the bars/coffee shops. We saw the guy he was looking for, Aleksander, and he jumped out of the car to confront him. I turned around and was ready to get out of there when I saw to young guys whom I know. They came over to the car and asked me what in the world was I doing with Sasi! Again, their looks convinced me that this guy was trouble. I told them that I had nothing to do with the guy, but that he was trouble and had been very threatening. They said not to worry, and we drove off, back to the hotel.

When we got back to the hotel, the whole team was assembled and they were worried. The main issue was that we had no guarantee that this guy wasn’t going to come back! So, we quickly decided to move all the girls over to the other hotel. It is in the middle of the village and the owner is right there. However, before doing that, I decided to go to the police. At the police station, I mimed and grunted my best to let the guy know there was a problem at the hotel. He seemed to understand (he was Albanian) and by the time I had driven over there he had walked over. The road is windy, while he jus went on a foot-path. He had also called in a patrol and they arrived with a Macedonian police officer. I told them what had happened and they assured us that they would take care of things, but to go ahead and move the girls to the other hotel. I took the first group, and then, when I came back for the second group the police were back and had arrested Sasi! He as very mad at me and continued to threaten me and ask me why I was causing him so much trouble! They took him to the police station and told me to finish taking the girls and then come to the station to make a report.

I took the girls and had another conversation with the owner of the other hotel. He told me that Sasi causes trouble every week and that he had been in a fight in his hotel some time ago. However, I shouldn’t worry about the guy! I went back to the station and they asked me to make a report. Two of my guys, one of them being Marjan, who had been with me the whole time, were with me. Sasi was standing in the corner looking very belligerent and often interuppting. The Albanians would give him a cuff and tell him to stand up straight, not cross his arms etc. I gave a brief report, hitting the hightlights, and then the commander asked me to step outside with the Macedonian policeman. There they told me that Sasi was in my hands. If I wanted him to go to jail then he would, if not, then they would let him go with an apology! I felt like I was standing before Pilate as he was washing his hands! However, knowing that things might be worse if he is really Mafia and had to go to jail, I told them that I was willing to drop charges. We went back inside and they made him apologize, a rather backhanded, “I’m sorry you took it that way” apology. I also had to write a statment saying that I had dropped charges. At that, they told us not to worry and sent us on our way!

I got back to the hotel at about 12 and called to let Jackie know that all was okay. I had called her early, before going to the station, so she could be praying. It was comforting to know that both of us had Romans 8:28 in mind, although, in my great faith I was thinking, “God, how can you bring good out of this?!?”

I managed to get to sleep at about 3am and was awakened at 6am with a heavy rain. Around 8 I went over to the other hotel to talk to Don and see what their thoughts were for the day. Don’s wife, Sandy, categorically said, “We’re done.” The girls weren’t so much scared as frazzled and the idea of carrying on was out of the question. However, we had 17 people and room for 5 in my van! Even if we wanted to run there wasn’t anyway to make it happen! We arranged for a local van driver to come pick up 12 of the team and take them to Korce, a town in southern Albania about 45 minutes away. Don and Sandy had spent time there 2 years ago and they know the lay of the land and felt comfortable going there. The van couldn’t make it till 2:30, so we still had time to kill.
Well, at 9:15, in pouring rain, kids started so show up for English camp! I told the first ones who came that we probably weren’t going to have camp, but they hung around. By 10:30 we had about 15 boys gathered! Our team was weary and on edge, but I asked for 4 volunteers to sing some songs or play games with the kids and make it worth their while. The team stepped up to the bat, and after about an hour of good fun and loud songs, we gathered the kids up to give them t-shirts and send them off. I told them how proud we were of them and how well they had done. I also told them how sad we were that we had to end the camp, but that people in the valley were against us and were spreading lies against us. We told them that they are true witnesses of who we are and what we are about and that they should not allow anyone to lie to them. We asked them to hold on to the truth and to be assured of our love for them. Then, I prayed a prayer of blessing on them and their families and we sent them off. A couple of the kids started crying and that got some of us choked up! As they walked off into the rain, we just stood there and cried. At first I was crying out of love for those kids, they had really gotten under our skin. Then, my tears turned to tears of anger and I felt a very righteous anger- I would honestly say that I felt a little like God- as I thought of the sin that is waiting to warp those little guys. We had already seen how in one year good kids had gone from being our friends to being against us and the truth that that could happent to these kids really made me angry! That anger fueled me the rest of the day.

The bus came at 2:30 and I escorted the team to Korce. I got back at about 4:30 and I and the 4 Macedonian kids who stayed with me went on a couple of visits. We were able to sit down with some folks and talk about the night before. Most of them were shocked that we would pull the team out after one incident, but all of them admitted that the guy was a real trouble maker and had spent time in jail for drug traffiking and other stuff. A good friend of mine, also a relative of Sasi, told me that a few years ago, Sasi had molested some girls in the high-school. He was in jail, but my friend, being a good relative and also a teacher at the school, convinced the girls to drop the charges against him! That just added fuel to my righteous anger and I blasted him and all other adults who would listen. I told them that they have the responsibility to guide the next generation and as long as they are morally bankrupt they have nothing to offer the next generation. I feel like I was able to say things that under normal circumstances would not have been allowed. God really gave me the courage to speak up and do so in a very forceful way.

Oh, the policeman brought Sasi back to the hotel that night to apologize again. He told me that the Albanian police were looking for him, but the Macedonians were hiding him! “He’s our guy.” The policeman said. That really bothered me, but it also opened my eyes to some of the cultural issues that we are up against there. The fact that they are a minority gives them a complex and the added desire to stick together and buck the law and the system.

The best thing that came from all of this was a talk with the hotel owner’s wife- Dita. Dita and I have had a very good relationship over the last few months. Sasi is her first cousin! She was just crushed by all that had happened and was very embarassed that her relative had done this. I was able to talk to her for more than two hours about some of the big problems in the valley, but mainly about her personal need for Christ. She was very open. It was as if, instead of moving a few rocks, God had dynamited her heart open. I think this is true for other people there too. That evening, Dita prayed to have more faith. She, like most Orthodox folks, “believes” but has no concept of submission to God or obedience as an expression of that faith. I think we made huge inroads with her.

So, after a rather stressful Thursday, on Friday morning the guys and I headed out for Korce. We picked up the team there and went to Ohrid where we spent the night before coming home to Skopje on Saturday. I was so tired that I slept till 11:30 on Sunday morning (that was interuppted by getting up at 4:30am to send off the team). Really, I have felt tired since I got back until today, Wednesday. I think the 9 pounds I lost wasn’t just do to mediocre food! Stress may have had something to do with it!

Friday, July 28, 2006

New Addition!

Wait a minute! Before you start the "oohs" and "ahhs" and the "I can't believe they would have another!", we need to let you know that the newest member of our family will not be the youngest!
One month ago, after much prayer and consultation, Jackie and I decided to open our home to a new child. Angela, a 12 year-old Macedonian girl, will be moving in with us at the end of August!

Let me share the story as simply as I can, trying not to lose you in the details!
We have known Angela and her family for about 2 years, but only in the last 3-4 months have we been more intimately involved in her life, or more precisely, in the life of her mother, Riki. Angela's father died about 5 years ago in tragic circumstances. At that time her mother began a serious dive into alchoholism. 3 months ago, Angela's aunt felt led to bring Riki from their home village to Skopje. This aunt is a member of our church and a fine believer. We covenanted with her to help find Riki a job and to surround her with the love and support she would need to beat the alchoholism and get her life turn around.
Soon after arriving in Skopje with her 4 year-old son, Riki made a profession of faith in Christ and all seemed to be going well. Angela remained in the village with her grandparents till the end of the school year. Well, Riki's foray into sobriety was short-lived and she was soon back to binge drinking. It was quickly obvious that we were in over our heads.
As we were floundering, God was working in great ways! The very day that Angela arrived in Skopje, Riki met with counselors of a Christian substance abuse center in Croatia. They run a very rigorous program there and provide a work-study program as well as child-care for pre-school children. This was a real Godsend as it meant the 4 year-old could go with her. However, Angela would not be able to go. Lile, the aunt, is a single-mom with two kids of her own, all of whom live in a two-room apartment. Not two bedrooms, two rooms. So, the obvious problem was, "What to do with Angela?"
Very hesitantly, with true fear and trepidation, Jackie and I responded to what we believe to be God's will for us in this matter. We talked it over with our 3 kids and we all agreed that we can take Angela in to our home as part of our family. This is not an adoption or a legal foster situation. Rather, it is providing Angela with a home while her mom is healing up in Croatia. This could last for 1 1/2 to 2 years.
Angela's unstable childhood, and the fact that she is entering into adolescence, are only some of our concerns. Moving from a village to the big city will be tough for her. Not to mention moving from grandparents to living with Americans! Angela will face many changes and so will all of us!

We ask you to pray dilligently for all of us as we make this big adjustment. Angela has been with us for a week on a "getting-to-know-you" basis and it has been a good week. She is a really sweet kid and she and Rebekah have really hit it off well. She is also very good with the boys and seems to love them greatly. It has been easy having her here. During the next 5 weeks of summer, before school starts, she will be with us off and on, spending the rest of the time with her aunt and grandparents. Beginning Sept 1, she will be with us full-time. We have many things to work out: space in our home, getting her registered in school, etc.

One of our biggest prayer requests is that Angela is nearly totally blind in her left-eye. You would never notice this just looking at her, she functions very well despite this handicap. We have been told that there is a cure, but at this time we have no idea what that means or what it will take to heal her. Pray with us that God will make each step clear.

We really belive that God is using this time to teach us many things as a family, but more important, He is using this time to HEAL an entire family- Riki, Angela and her brother, Trache.
Pray!
















Angela and Joshua Angela and Rebekah

Big #7!

Today, actually yesterday, as this is being posted after midnight, was Joshua's 7th birthday! Despite the roaring summer temps, we had a great day together. Josh got the traditional pancake breakfast complete with a pancake in the shape of a "7". He got gifts from all family, with his favorite being a pair of roller blades. Mom and Dad instantly realized the mistake of this gift when the other kids began demanding their own pair!

We completed the day with a very Macedonian-like birthday party- more adults present than kids! We had our neighbors and some church-friends over for a meal out in the yard. Jackie made a great cake- Ninja Turtle theme- and the kids took turns on the roller blades while adults just hung out and visited. In good Balkan fashion, our guests were here till 11pm!

Thanks for the many notes we got regarding Josh's special day. We appreciate your prayers for him. We were very proud of him this evening as we bowed to pray for our food and he led the whole gathering in prayer in Macedonian! He is a good kid.






Pics from the special day:

1) The pancake.
2) The roller blader
3) Little brother helps out with unwrapping a gift!

Thursday, July 13, 2006

Prague Pic

I can't seem to get the hang of posting pictures on this blog! Anyway, this belonged in the post below.
On our way back to Skopje from Warsaw, we got bumped from our flight and "had" to spend the day in Prauge! Not a bad place to burn a few hours at airline expense. We had a good time walking around this beautiful city with friends and had a great lunch at a mexican restaurant, something Skopje sorely lacks!
Got home the next day. This pic is in front of the famous "Charles Bridge."

The Rush is On

After a brief, but refreshing vacation in Greece and a great trip to Poland for our annual mission meeting (see pics below) things are picking up steam!

Enjoing the pool in Greece!


In early August, we will be holding an ESL camp among Macedonians who live in Albania. It looks like all details are set for the camp, but in the Balkans, you never believe it till you see it! I was down there yesterday to make sure all was in order and had a great visit. I would ask you to pray for my friend Svetko. He has heard the Gospel a number of times, but is very set in his traditional ways. I had a good talk with him yesterday.

While preparing for August, we also have some family activities going on.
Rebekah is in the middle of a ten-day scout camp on lake Ohrid. She is having a good time, but home-sickness hit her hard yesterday! Pray for her!
Joshua is learning to roller-skate and is tearing up the sidewalk from the front-door to the street! Looks like he is about to graduate to roller blades.
Daniel is going to summer school, not because he wants to, but because his language needs it! Pray that he will keep learning!
Jackie is keeping the house running and has taken on the task of covering our neighborhood in prayer. She is taking a daily prayer walk up and down the streets, praying for our neighbors. Join her in these prayers that our lives will draw the hearts of our neighbors to Jesus.

Enjoy the pics below from our time in Greece, the kids program in Poland, and the added bonus of a day in Prague on our way home from Poland.

Daniel and friends in concert!

Josh (in costume as Benjamin, Joseph's brother).

His first role in a musical!

Saturday, July 08, 2006

Back from Poland

We got home a week ago from our 10 day trip to Poland. We were there with more than 400 other missionaries from all over central and eastern Europe. The first few days were business meetings, followed by a week of great worship times and some good teaching and training. The highlight of the time, as it is every year, was the fellowship with colleagues whom we see only once a year.
The kids had a great time. Volunteers from churches in the states did VBS classes for the kids and they put on a musical for all of us at the end of the week. The kids really enjoyed the great water park at the hotel! There were 8 different pools and a collection of water slides! At least every other day we were in the water and loving it.
Unfortunately, our digital camera is busted, but some friends took some pics for us so hopefully we will post some in the days ahead.

Prayer:
-summer is always a down-time in Skopje. Pray that we will stay focused on the task and use some of the downtime to sharpen our plans for the future.
-pray for student beach-reach during the month of July in the town of Ohrid.
-pray for preparation for an ESL camp from August 5-12

Thanks!
Kyle

Sunday, June 18, 2006

Thanks so much for your initial responses to our blog! I am already finding that the difficulty is going to be in keeping this thing up to date! Well, the last week was an eventful one. We had planned a family camping trip for the end of the week. However, on Tuesday, I hurt my back while playing squash. This is an old injury and I knew the proper cure- flat in bed. So, Tuesday afternoon and all day Wednesday I spent in bed, other than a couple of necessary visits, a Bible study and a meeting. Despite the injury we decided to press on with our trip, but instead of camping we decided to head down to Greece for some R&R. We picked a hotel with a pool that was also close to the beach. We arrived on Thursday about noon and stayed till Sunday morning. It was a very relaxing time and the pool was pretty good therapy for my back!


Rebekah, Josh and Daniel really enjoyed the beach and are eager to go back for a more complete vacation at the end of August.

Today is a turnaround day. We are washing clothes and repacking to leave tomorrow for our annual mission meeting in Poland. We will be together with several hundred colleagues from around Central and Eastern Europe. Our time begins with two days of meetings for fellow Strategy Coordinators and then the full session begins with all of the missionaries from all over. The kids are really looking forward to seeing their friends, most of whom they see this one time a year.

So, a few prayer items:
1) For a safe trip to and from Poland and a time of renewal there.
2) A renewed vision for our church here in Skopje.
3) Preparations for our summer camp, the first week of August.
4) Help with our digital camera! It quit working our last day in Greece and we want to be able to post more pictures for you!!!

In closing, here are a few more pics from the last couple of weeks:




Jackie and Josh at his kindergarten "graduation" ceremony!









Well, I wanted to post some more pics, but for some reason the upload is giving me trouble!

More after Poland!

Kyle

Sunday, June 11, 2006

Summer is here and things are cranking up to full-speed! Joshua and Rebekah are home for the summer holidays. Rebekah finished third-grade and Josh wrapped up kindergarten. Meanwhile, Daniel will continue with pre-school throughout the summer.

We have a full summer ahead of us, beginning with a few days of camping later this week. The weather has been really bad, lots of rain, so that trip is in question, but we are sure excited about getting up in the mountains and enjoying a few days of hiking, relaxing and quiet.

Then, on June 20th, we head to Poland for our annual mission meeting. The IMB's Central and Eastern Europe region is hosting the meeting which will be a great time of fellowship and training. Our kids are really excited about going, since this is the only time of the year for them to see some of their best friends who live in other parts of Europe.

July will be full of activities. Josh and Rebekah will go to a 10 day camp on Lake Ohrid, in southern Macedonia. The camp is sponsored by their local Christian scouting organization. I, Kyle, will have plenty of work getting ready for an English camp among Macedonian villages in southern Albania. These villages are in a very remote area. We are trying to begin an evangelical house-church in that area, but are meeting with strong resistance. Most of the local people consider themselves "Orthodox Atheists." In other words, they are Orthodox by tradition but atheists with regards to actual belief and practice. The actual English camp will be held in early August and we would appreciate your prayers!

Pray for us as a family to be a light in the darkness. We really want to reach our neighbors and while we have had some success in that area we also have met with some hard walls. We believe that God is powerful and we must be faithful!

We'll keep you posted as to whats going on, although we will be out of touch off-and-on throughout the summer due to our travelling.
Grace,
Kyle

Monday, May 22, 2006

May 2006

Welcome to the first posting of our blog!
Jackie and I are hoping that this "new" technology will help us keep you updated more frequently on what is going on in our lives and how you can pray for us and church planting here in Macedonia.

As of May 22, we are all doing well.
Rebekah just got back from a week-long school trip. She was on a mountain in southern Macedonia with 200 other third and fourth graders. She had a great time and didn't seem to miss us enough!
Joshua is raring to start 1st grade this fall. He will wrap up kindergarten in June and begin school in September. He is very athletic and also our number one extrovert. He has plenty of friends and is doing well with language.
Daniel's big achievement has been learning to ride his bike with no training wheels! He is now off and rolling, but has to remember to keep his head up and look for oncoming cars. He is enjoying preschool and in particular his friendship with Stefan.

Pray for our church here in Skopje. We have a total of 5 home groups and one of them is about to "birth" a new group! We are very pleased about that, as the idea of multiplying new groups has been very slow to take hold.

We will try to give you some regular updates, so stay tuned!
Kyle